The Nature of Mind
Stop being a hostage to your own thoughts and see who is really doing the thinking.
Why this matters to me
For most of my life I thought I was my thoughts. When I noticed they could be observed from the outside, almost everything changed.
Beliefs, reactions and habits are shaped by biology, upbringing and random experience. We rarely choose them ourselves, yet we defend them as if they were our own face. Once you see that a thought is an event and not you, you gain a choice you didn't have before.
For me, this direction is the foundation for all the others. Extending life, augmenting the mind with machines, reaching agreement without coercion only make sense if the one doing all this isn't living on the autopilot of old reactions.
Questions I ask myself
Who notices your thoughts?
Which of your beliefs did you choose yourself?
What remains if you stop arguing with your own head?
Can you change a reaction you consider part of your character?
These questions are not about the right answer. They work as long as you keep asking them.
My position
I am not my thoughts
Thoughts arrive on their own: you don't order them in advance. You can notice anxiety, irritation or an old resentment arising, and in that moment it becomes clear that there is someone doing the noticing. The Buddhist tradition has explored this for thousands of years; modern psychology says the same thing in other words.
I call this the meta-position: the ability to look at your own model of the world from the outside. Not running away from your thoughts, but no longer being identical to them.
A thought is an event in the mind, not a verdict and not me.
Thinking can be rewired
The brain is plastic: neural connections change through experience, learning and repetition. New books, people, environments and practices gradually rewrite how a person thinks, as long as they don't cling to the old for its own sake.
That's where my interest in self-management practices comes from — from meditation to NLP. I take from them what I can test on myself: how to notice an automatic reaction, how to change the inner picture of a situation, how to choose a state instead of waiting for it.
An honest caveat
Not every belief changes with a single intention. Trauma, fatigue, hunger and fear live deeper than words, and working with them takes years, sometimes with a specialist. I don't believe in quick weekend transformations.
But I see that even a small distance between yourself and a thought already changes behavior: a pause appears, and in that pause, a choice.
Why this isn't only about me
Aggression and the urge to dominate and take what belongs to others are largely automatic reactions triggered by scarcity and fear. A person who can notice them negotiates differently. That's why I think a society without coercion begins not with laws but with how people relate to their own minds.
Horizons
Not a forecast, but the direction I want to move in
Now
Meditation, cognitive practices and NLP are available to everyone. An AI conversation partner helps you unpack your reactions and notice recurring thoughts.
Nearer
Learning the meta-position is part of school as naturally as reading. Neurofeedback shows the state of your mind as easily as your pulse.
Far
People freely choose their states and worldviews instead of carrying them as a given. Destructive reactions become rare because they can be seen coming.
Thinkers and Books
Thinkers
- The Buddhist tradition of exploring the mind Thoughts and feelings are events that appear and pass. The one who observes them is none of them.
- Richard Bandler and John Grinder The map is not the territory. Inner representations can be changed, and behavior changes along with them.
Books
- «The Brain That Changes Itself» Stories of how the brain rewires itself at any age when experience and practice change.
- «The Structure of Magic» How language describes and limits experience — and how to change experience through language.
- «The Untethered Soul» A simple, precise book about how you are not the voice in your head but the one who hears it.
- «Waking Up» Spirituality without religion: how to look at your own consciousness soberly and still deeply.
- «Thinking, Fast and Slow» A catalogue of the mistakes the mind makes when it is sure it's right. A good remedy for blind faith in your own conclusions.
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